Building up a family well is a benefit of engendering great affections between your children, it's un-congruous to show love to one child over other children that you bear as father additionally, doing that will cause an astronomically immense conflict between you and your children. It will turn their back to you and make them hate you as their parents, don't optically discern one child as a precious instead you should optically discern all of your children as a precious gift given to you by God because they are your future and hope of tomorrow, sooner or later you are going to become old and won't be able to work as you did now. They will be the one to take care of you in the future.
When your children come to ask you something or accumulate anything from you, don't always shout at them because most parents conventionally do that when they don't have that thing, at that particular time. Albeit you don't have what he/she is asking for, you still have to approach them in the best way and make them understand that you don't have what they are asking for, but will give them later.
There are some parents that only appreciate one child out of their children, optically discerning the rest as deplorable ones. They even call the child with different kinds of good names in front of other children they bear as parent to. Tell me, how do you optate your children to visually perceive you, when you are doing something like that? Nothing good will can't come to their mind, those children will definitely be in deep thought, they would feel insecure to do anything besides you.
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Exhibiting love to one child over other children is very mundane in most African countries, especially in Nigeria, this issue customarily start to occur when one child is doing well in his/her inculcation, compared to other children in the family. The parent will commence to optically discern that child as the only earnest child in that family and neglecting the rest. If you are that kind of parent doing such a thing, it is never too tardy to transmute your posture towards your children.
Recollect that they will be the one to take care of you in the future, and when you have picked on one child out of your children, proving that he/she is more preponderant than the rest. You ken is going to be a total loss for you in the future when that child didn't make it among your children.
Things You Need To Do For Your Children
- Always be there for your children.
- Do give your advice to them when you're with them because they will always need it.
- Don't turn them down when they come to seek something from you.
- Always appreciate your children because they dote to be appreciated.
- Like an espousement or a comity, your relationship with your children needs positive attention to thrive.
- Provide a congruous care for your children so as not to become an abnegated stone in the family.
- Monitor your children from whatever they might be doing so that they won't be led astray.
- Know the kind of friends your children keep, so that they won't mingle with the deplorable ones. It's very paramount to do that because children love to keep friends they will apportion their mental conceptions with.
- It will make your children to see themselves as a rival in the family.
- It will make your children don't take care of you when you're old.
- It will make your children to visually perceive themselves as a rival in the family.
- There will be a lack of communication between you and your children, obnubilate a secret from you.
- Lack of trust, they will feel insecure to apportion feelings with you as a parent
- Lack of boldness
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