Some of us are not good at collecting a woman's number we met for the first time. The good news is that there are ways to be more successful at it and got the number for the first time you met her. Many men are too quick to blurt out, "Hey, give me your number" or something like that, and for some people who had just met someone, it may be working for you in that way, then if so, keep on doing it!
The problem with saying something like, "Can I have your number" is that not calls into question that is very easy to be rejected. What we want to do is to ask questions that are more difficult to say no and be easier to say yes at the end.
Let us assume that you are talking to an attractive girl for the first time, the conversation seems to be going well and you feel this is the right time to ask for her phone number. Instead of asking for it, let's use a little psychology that will greatly increase your chances of making her to give you her number.
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Continue your conversation, then take out your phone. Now she's going to wonder why you put out your phone, she will probably assume that you have just received a text message and you want to read it.
In fact, you unlock the phone and add her to your contact list unknowingly. Use a name that is funny or clever or flattering, such as "Meet the New Saucy Girl". Once it's done, do two things:
- Without leaning forward, stretch your arms until your phone is only four inches or more away from it. This accomplishes two things, putting you and your phone in the "personal space" it in a way that is not threatening, and it involves an automated response - when someone reaches out to give us something, we instinctively reach out to pick it up.
- Instead of just asking for her number, saying "Why don't you put your number into my cell phone?" And here is where you will take it to another level that will increase the likelihood that she would do that. There are countless studies on the psychological techniques and proven to work across all boundaries and cultures.
People are much more likely to do what you ask them to do if you give them a reason to do so. "Why don't you put your number in my phone because I really enjoyed this conversation and I want to be able to talk to you more as you go." Do you see the difference between this technique and that just say, "Can I have your number?"
Now if you get a number, do one more thing that will make you different from many other guys to stay and continue the conversation. Most of the guys end the conversation and left immediately they got the number, which is not quite polite.
You survive and stand out from the others. That makes it even more likely that when you call, your call will be answered. There is a whole "science" behind meet people and connect with them on an emotional level, a science that can be a miracle for a social life for almost anyone.
We have emotional triggers, psychological and sexual abuse within us certain that operates at the level of the conscious and subconscious. When pressed, the call triggers certain to feel inside us.
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